Saturday, 24 October 2026

Nate Hagens' Thought

Just watched a good talk by Nate Hagens about the future of energy. One thing he said really stood out to me: You don't have to know what you want to do for the rest of your life (i.e. fret about your purpose); you just need to take a step toward what feels right to you.
In other words, we don't have to see the whole path before setting out on the journey. We can live with uncertainty and act without knowing everything that's going to happen. Sometimes it takes a leap of faith, but sometimes it isn't a leap, it's just a waddle in the right direction.



Wednesday, 21 October 2026

When Life Seems Overwhelming...

 Sometimes things look complicated or scary 


until you see them from a different perspective, and then...


oops, nope, still big and scary.



Saturday, 17 October 2026

The Great Purge, Kristen-style

My personal observation: When you're in your 20s to 40s, your aim is to accumulate stuff, and when you're in your 50s and older, your aim is to let go of stuff. I've been doing a bit of a purge, getting rid of furniture, clothes, books, and knicknacks. I've even gone through my cabinet of garden seeds and asked myself if I'm really going to plant 4-year-old garlic bulbils. Of course not! Out they go.
Part of the decluttering process has been going through my filing cabinet and thumb drives, cleaning up old manuscripts I've never done anything with. They've been weighing me down, always in the back of my mind like a neglected obligation. It feels like I just don't have the time or energy to take the usual approach with traditional publishers, and some of the stories are novella-length, not really book-length, so it's easiest just to put them out there through self-publishing (which, I'll fully confess, I've hitherto considered a bit like cheating).
But you know what? It's been very freeing. No stress, no deadlines, no sales mentality. Just rekindling the forgotten joy of writing. Polishing and editing and setting them loose into the wild. I think after so many years of dealing with the traditional publishing scene, books had become a product. I'd become a bit jaded and lost the pleasure of words. I'm recapturing that now, and it's been wonderful. Now it really is all about creativity, not commerce, and that makes all the difference.
And THAT, my dears, is what AI users don't understand.